Ok folks, today we are going to discuss friendship. I guess this word could mean something different to everyone. Some think that friendship is something that comes naturally because you have known somewhere for a long period of time. But in reality friendship is something that takes dedication and work. True friends are always there for you no matter what. They are the ear that you need when you have something important to say. They are the shoulder to lean on when you don't feel strong. But most of all there are there to support you in good times and bad times. Recently I have noticed that the people I have considered to be friends are just a facade. See true friendship is a two way street. You have to be the friend that you would want to have in your life. So it's crazy to me that the majority of people I consider to be friends are nothing like me. I don't know about other people but personally I am overly attentive to my friends. Always there when they need someone to take to, always there when they needed a helping hand and always supportive of their decisions whether right or wrong in my mind. In my eyes a real and true blue friend will not try and make you out to be wrong, they will not try and make you feel stupid if they don't agree with you and most importantly they will never lose their friendship for a relationship. Nowadays I find that friends fade away when they get into a relationship. It's sad to me that people cannot separate their time between friends and significant others.
Sorry about the whole breaking up friendship thing. Every friendship has a purpose. Some of them just take longer to fulfill. Though the friendship may be coming to an end, the memories will live forever. um I'm not sure if you want sit down with your "friend" and tell them your differences and WHY you don't want to be their friend anymore. try to do it in a respectful peaceful way so they don't come and haunt you the rest of your life and be mean to you forever. "we didn't stop being friends, we just stopped seeing each other as friends." drop that zero and get a hero "All good things come to an end..." False friends are like our shadow, keeping close to us while we walk in the sunshine but leaving us when we cross into the shade.” Next time they want to talk to you tell them your too busy trying to get that damn knife out of your back. and remember few friendships would survive if each one knew what their friend says behind their back.
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