Come on LADIES!

Ladies, I have a bone to pick with you.  Ever since I was in high school I have been listening to women talk about they wish they could find a good man.  We as a gender are always complaining that there are no good men left in the world.  We say that we don't want to settle for less than we believe we are worth.  Yet, majority of women I know and are friends with are settling for men who are way less than worthy of their fabulosity.  Unfortunately due to past relationships and being jaded by unworthy men, many women fail to realize a good man when they see one.  I am gonna use a friend of mine as an example.  To protect her identity lets just call her "B.B".  Well BB has always had good men throwing themselves at her.  Whether they were professionals or athletes she has always had a good man within her reach.  Unfortunately BB has this issue with getting close to anyone.  Most of the time I want to shake the shit out of her.  She has had bad relationship after bad relationship.  Seems that she falls for the guys that don't want a commitment and have someone else in their lives.  Now she has met a perfect gentleman.  This man has cooked for her twice already, helped her son with his homework and takes BB to lunch every chance he gets.  When they are alone his phone does not ring, he does not have pictures of other chicks around and when they are out in public he is affectionate.  He treats her like a lady and he truly respects her.  But guess what?  She said she is confused as to whether he's genuine or not.  WTF!!! Come on girls!  Since when do we feel the need to question a good man?  When a lying cheating man comes in the picture we believe every word out of their mouths.  Yet a good man who is genuine and true we question....  Does this seem backwards to anyone else?  It's a new year and we aren't getting any younger.  Instead of saying what we don't want in a man why not look for what we DO want.  You are all worth more than you think.  Don't settle for less and don't question something that feels right.

Forget getting a job, Just be a teen mom?!

The idea of teenage girls having babies is nothing new.  Girls have since the beginning of time been giving birth in their early teenage years.  In the past it was natural and expected due to the fact that the life span of humans was shorter.  Now that we are living longer don't you think it's time that these kids wait a little longer before popping out babies?  The show Teen Mom and 16 and Pregnant on MTV are truly the worst shows I've ever seen.  Talk about children growing up without any parental supervision.  These girls are with men that do not care about them, are cheating on them or are denying the baby to be theirs.  Don't get me wrong a few of the girls decided to give the baby up for adoption and in my opinion this is the best thing for all parties involved.  I have known several people that were pregnant in high school.  One girl I know is my age now, has 3 children and her oldest is about to be 11.  But with reality shows like this what message are we truly sending the youth of today?  Not only are they watching this show thinking that they aren't going to be like that, that they could handle a baby.  But they are also learning that the girls from these shows are getting paid anywhere from 140,000 to 300,000 dollars a year!  WTF?!  Seriously it seems more lucrative these days to get knocked up, be in a bad situation and exploit not only your life but the life of your family and child.  Shows like this make me sick.  Just think these are going to be the future of our generation.  These are the women and men that will be the future.  Most of the girls do not have solid relationships with their parents or with their significant others.  If you ask me sex should be discussed more openly in schools and with the family.  I don't think many teenagers understand the severity of having sex.  Teen pregnancy seems to be a never ending cycle.  So many teen moms are the product of a teen mom themselves.  The cycle needs to end somewhere.

This makes me want to throw up

So bored at work today I start looking through gossip webpages.  I came across a picture that made my stomach hurt so hard from laughing.  This picture is to the left.  Seriously though Kim? What made me laugh even harder is the article that followed. Apparently this reality star is now trying to make music.  If I wasn't already completely sick of her as it was this just put me over the limit.  First Paris Hilton, then Lindsey Lohan and now Kim Kardashian.  WTF??!! Just because people enjoy following your dysfunctional family and all of your drama does not mean that the music world wants to hear about it as well.  And to make things even worse is that The Dream actually produced the music for her!  Then we have people like Ciara and Kanye encouraging this foolishness.  SMH.  Why can't these famous for no reason lames leave music to actual talented musicians?  No one wants to hear your voice distorted by auto tune because you can't carry a note.  Now that I have ranted about all of that does anyone else think that her played out cornrow look remind you of an early 2000's J-Lo?  LMAO.  I'm sorry but this picture makes me think J-Lo during her diddy years.  Hopefully this isn't a still from her music video because I'm just waiting for SHINY SUIT MAN to make a cameo in the background.  Come on world stop giving these no talent hoes and lames reason to be even more popular.  I'm not ashamed to say it I"M ANIT KARDASHIAN (i can deal with Khloe though.)