Should I Care What You Think?

In life there are always going to be people that think differently than you.  There are always going to be those people who talk about you and your decisions.  The question is are you going to let the thoughts and words of others dictate what you do in your own life?  Personally I say fuck em!  Too many times in life we let the opinions of others shape our own opinions.  This seems to happy most within circles of friends.  If a fight happens between two friends then you are automatically expected to take a side.  Both of the two in the argument will plead their cases to you and then you are expected to make a decision.  Or lets say that you are around someone who is in a bad mood.  If we become in a bad mood after being around this person we naturally blame them for our change in mood.  But honestly how can someone other than ourselves be responsible for how we feel?  I don't know about you, but I'm not going to let anyone tell me how I feel.  We focus too much on what others think these days.  We base our clothing, our language, our makeup, our choice in music and even what we eat depending on what others will say about us.  Oh no don't wear that color green!  Someone will make fun of you.  Well you know what? FUCK EM.  If they make fun of you it is out of their own insecurities.  Now I will not sit here and act like I'm innocent.  I have plenty of times made fun of others.  And I have also been the one made fun of.  I have changed my clothes just so no one would notice me.  I have also watched what I say for fear that someone would mock me.  Those days are over for me.  So why not be over for you?  If it makes you happy, DO IT.  If you're absolutely comfortable, WEAR IT!  If you think you're 100 percent right and it feels good, then SAY IT!  No longer should we base our values and opinions on those of others.  So from now on I'm on my FUCK EM theory.  You don't like what I say, do or how I act then FUCK U too. I will not apologize for feeling this way because unlike the others, I do not care what you say about me.